You can't please everyone, and you can't make everyone like you. Stop wasting your time on people who don't love you If people are trying to bring you down, It only means you are above them. Life isn't about finding yourself, Life is about creating yourself. You can do what makes you happy, and and just hope that those around will be happy for you. Once you learn how to be happy, you won't tolerate being around people that makes you feel anything less. You can't please everyone, and that's a fact